sp-show-pair-matching-face
is the current matching face.
I think smartparens also has a face to the enclosing open parenthesis.
I can't find its name
related question is, can I find out the face of text which I can't place my cursor to? (so I can use C-u C-x =
to find the face)
grep 'sp-.*-face' smartparens.el
?